Good speaking must have some qualities. Those who think before speaking are more talented. Among us this number is not very much.
There are many of us who we love to listen to. It also happens that I buy a ticket and go to listen to them. What is there in their words?
A good conversation must have a few qualities,
Let’s talk about it a bit-
1. Talk will be realistic and very positive:
Words that focus on life and goals and give real examples that make the listener very brave. Such words give new life to mechanical life.
For example, if you talk to a student, don’t just tell him about reading; He will listen to you if you tell him what you have done at his age, what you have gained or lost in life to be like him.
Knowing the subject matter that you may need to talk about will not lack context, it will make the audience feel like you belong. It is not right to speak in the active part of a word without knowing, in this case it is better to speak in the defaulter part of the subject.
2. Having general knowledge about the topic of speech:
Let’s take as an example, in order to have a good conversation with a professor of biology, you should at least know the basics of biology or read an article written by him, otherwise you will just listen to him by default, there will not be much opportunity to talk. Your audience will get bored.
3. Being conscientious and rational:
One should speak with understanding of place, time, person, purpose and perspective. Sometimes a situation comes to us that, even if it is true or realistic, it is not right for that moment or that person. If it is true, then your purpose may fail. If you do not understand in these cases, it is better to remain silent if necessary.
For example, recently in a country, students make a demand to their Prime Minister, despite the fact that the demand is reasonable, the Prime Minister talks negatively about the student society. In terms of which the country is currently in a state of civil war. There was a lack of understanding and speaking. And people in important positions need to be more thoughtful in choosing every word.
4. Purpose of speaking:
Before every speech we need to fix our intention. You can make this decision in a few seconds. The objective may be personal happiness, any achievement, elimination of conflict, right choice etc.
For example, when you talk to one of your old friends, it is your personal happiness, if you talk about business purposes, it can be an achievement.
5. Above all politeness:
You must keep politeness while speaking. You have to speak with proper manners in these three moments: the beginning, the middle and the end of the speech.
For example, observing the audience’s engagement, whether the audience is bored, speaking with a smile on the speaker’s face, listening carefully to the audience and giving a proper farewell at the moment of finishing the speech is one of them.
Having the above 5 qualities is indispensable in speaking. You don’t need to be very talented to speak correctly, you just need to have a little intelligence and be a good person. If we can influence even one person with our words, it is a change in a family. We need to be very aware in this regard.